How am I going to grow up?

By Enoch Kin On Wong

Book Description

Navigating the space between two worlds can be one of life's most challenging spiritual journeys. Dr. Enoch Wong examines a profound question that resonates far beyond any single community: how do we forge our own authentic identity when caught between the traditions of our heritage and the pull of contemporary culture?

This comprehensive study follows second-generation Chinese Canadian evangelicals as they wrestle with fundamental questions of belonging, faith, and personal growth. Wong reveals the "silent exodus" occurring as young adults raised in immigrant churches seek communities that truly understand their complex identities. These individuals find themselves in a unique position, honoring their parents' spiritual foundations while carving out space for their own evolving beliefs and cultural expressions.

Drawing from both sociology of religion and leadership studies, Wong explores how church leaders can either bridge or widen the generational divide. Through Robert Greenleaf's servant leadership principles, particularly the concept of foresight, the research illuminates how spiritual communities can better support young people navigating cultural and generational tensions.

This multi-case inquiry offers valuable insights for anyone grappling with questions of identity, belonging, and spiritual development. Whether you're examining your own cultural heritage, supporting others through identity transitions, or seeking to understand the complex dynamics of faith communities, Wong's research provides a thoughtful framework for growth and understanding across generational and cultural boundaries.